{"id":27764,"date":"2017-08-11T10:29:35","date_gmt":"2017-08-11T17:29:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/?p=27764"},"modified":"2017-08-11T10:29:35","modified_gmt":"2017-08-11T17:29:35","slug":"making-new-friends-form-networking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/gov-talk\/career-advice\/making-new-friends-form-networking\/","title":{"rendered":"Making New Friends is a Form of Networking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; padding_mobile=&#8221;off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.62&#8243; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/friends-and-networking-medium.jpg&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_3&#8243; 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I\u2019ve been told, \u201cWhy make new friends when I have these long-time relationships?\u201d I\u2019ve also encountered co-workers who told me that they don\u2019t invest in friendships at work as they wish to \u201cKeep work separate from their personal life.\u201d I maintain that those who choose not to make new friends, not only miss out on the joys of adding people to their life, but lose out on potential opportunities for career advancement through networking. I\u2019m at a new job and everyone else is already friends If you\u2019re just starting out at a new place, it can be hard to break into long-standing friendships. When you\u2019re new, I suggest taking advantage of every opportunity afforded to you. Volunteer for projects, especially those which benefit other staff. Don\u2019t wait to be invited to lunch or an after-work event; invite them. I realize there is the possibility of being rejected, which might not feel great. But, by putting yourself out there, you\u2019re creating opportunities for yourself instead of waiting for them to come to you. It doesn\u2019t always work out, but sometimes\u2026it does! I don\u2019t make friends to network \u2013 I just want to be friends.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#f7f7f4&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_row make_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; custom_width_px=&#8221;680px&#8221; use_custom_gutter=&#8221;on&#8221; gutter_width=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|&#8221; make_equal=&#8221;on&#8221; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_2=&#8221;#efefe9&#8243; parallax_method_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_2=&#8221;off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/networking-and-friends-2.jpg&#8221; animation=&#8221;off&#8221; sticky=&#8221;on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Image&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.62&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#efefe9&#8243; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/networking-and-friends-3.jpg&#8221; animation=&#8221;off&#8221; sticky=&#8221;on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Image&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.62&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.62&#8243; text_font=&#8221;PT Serif||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;24&#8243; text_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#818178&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;20%|10%||10%&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;|10%||10%&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Assume that you\u2019re going to be the one who needs to take the first step with making new friends. It isn\u2019t always easy and those flashbacks of trying to make friends in school often don\u2019t help<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; text_font=&#8221;PT Sans|on|||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;12&#8243; text_text_color=&#8221;#888888&#8243; text_letter_spacing=&#8221;2px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.2em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;20px||20%|&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;20px|||&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>LEIA O&#8217;CONNELL, CAREER COACH<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_row use_custom_width=&#8221;on&#8221; custom_width_px=&#8221;1200px&#8221; use_custom_gutter=&#8221;on&#8221; gutter_width=&#8221;4&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;3px||0px|&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;0px|||&#8221; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; parallax_method_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_2=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_3=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_4=&#8221;off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.62&#8243; text_font=&#8221;PT Serif||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;20&#8243; text_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#363636&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;60px||0px|&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;40px||0px|&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not suggesting that you should create friendships for the sole purpose of networking. Think of making new friends as a way to expand your network. Investing in others is an investment in yourself as well. Years ago, I asked one of my colleagues in graduate school if she would like to get coffee sometime.<\/p>\n<p>Three years later, after becoming close friends, she was able to help get me a job during a time when I was transitioning from one career field to another. I didn\u2019t ask her for coffee with the intent of getting a job three years down the line, but that opportunity wouldn\u2019t have been available if I hadn\u2019t added her to my network.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t like any of the people I work with This is one I\u2019ve heard often. Okay, you don\u2019t like the people you work with, but maybe you like your job or maybe you need your job. You can add professional contacts outside of the office; consider volunteering at a local organization you\u2019re passionate about or joining a professional network which meets up in person. Don\u2019t limit your opportunities to those who immediately surround you \u2013 start connecting with your community.<\/p>\n<p>Assume that you\u2019re going to be the one who needs to take the first step with making new friends. It isn\u2019t always easy and those flashbacks of trying to make friends in school often don\u2019t help. But, I\u2019ve found many times over that opportunities do not simply fall out of the sky \u2013 they appear through friends and co-workers who know me. 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