{"id":33440,"date":"2018-12-08T11:56:25","date_gmt":"2018-12-08T19:56:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/?p=33440"},"modified":"2018-12-08T11:56:26","modified_gmt":"2018-12-08T19:56:26","slug":"sometimes-its-best-to-wait-for-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/gov-talk\/career-advice\/sometimes-its-best-to-wait-for-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes It\u2019s Best to Wait for It"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Sometimes It\u2019s Best to Wait for It<\/span><\/p>\n

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[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ custom_padding_last_edited=”on|desktop” _builder_version=”3.0.74″ custom_padding=”25.3125px|0px|0|0px|false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”50px|0|50px|0″][et_pb_row use_custom_width=”on” custom_width_px=”1200px” custom_padding=”20px||0px|” custom_padding_tablet=”0px|||” column_padding_mobile=”on” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” parallax_method_1=”off” parallax_method_2=”off” admin_label=”row” _builder_version=”3.0.47″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ column_padding_mobile=”on” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.careersingovernment.com\/tools\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/ShelleyR.jpg” show_bottom_space=”off” align=”center” disabled_on=”on|on|” _builder_version=”3.2″ animation=”off” sticky=”on”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text disabled_on=”on|on|” _builder_version=”3.2″ text_font=”PT Sans|on|||” text_text_color=”#02b875″ text_font_size=”20″ text_line_height=”1.2em” header_text_color=”#000000″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” text_orientation=”center” max_width=”140px” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”20px||0px|”] SHELLEY ROW<\/a><\/span> [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text disabled_on=”on|on|” _builder_version=”3.2″ text_font=”PT Serif||on||” text_text_color=”#363636″ text_font_size=”16″ text_line_height=”1.4em” background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” text_orientation=”center” max_width=”140px” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”10px||60px|”] Named by Inc. as one of the top 100 leadership speakers, Shelley Row, P.E., is an engineer and former government and association executive. Shelley\u2019s leadership work focuses on developing insightful leaders who can see beyond the data. [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ column_padding_mobile=”on” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.18.1″ text_font=”PT Serif||||” text_text_color=”#363636″ text_font_size=”24″ text_font_size_last_edited=”on|tablet” text_line_height=”1.5em” background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” max_width=”720px” custom_margin=”0px||0px|”]<\/p>\n

I smiled as I watched the dad with his two-your old son scurry to the hotel escalator. \u00a0The dad held his son\u2019s hand firmly and flew him a few inches off the ground to land squarely on the moving step. The boy giggled and wiggled as if he was on an amusement park ride. \u00a0On the ride down, the little boy leaned forward in anticipation as if ready for take-off. I cringed with worry envisioning sharp escalator teeth against soft, baby skin. But his dad calmly said\u2014\u201cNo, not yet. Wait for it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Waiting isn\u2019t easy. When I teach one of my most requested programs about avoiding over-thinking, clients will comment that too much time is wasted by overthinking. We pressure ourselves to decide.<\/span><\/p>\n

But sometimes the best decision is to wait. \u00a0How do you know when to wait?<\/span><\/p>\n

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A little time may reveal the next best step.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Waiting might be best when\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

The future seems foggy<\/b>. \u00a0If you are or your organization is going through a disruptive time, there may be a lack of clarity and discomfort. Take a breath and give it some time. A little time may reveal the next best step.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have any followers<\/b>\u2014<\/span>yet<\/b>. \u00a0Leaders often find themselves in lonely roles. You\u2019re a leader in part because you see the future more quickly and clearly than others. That\u2019s exciting for you, but your tribe may need time to rally behind you. Gentle and intentionally share your ideas, but don\u2019t demand immediate buy-in.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re pushing too hard<\/b>. \u00a0If you\u2019ve been working and working toward a goal but nothing seems to be happening. Instead of pushing so hard, wait awhile. You may be trying to force something that isn\u2019t ready. Listen to that nagging feeling that says you\u2019re trying too hard. In my experience, pausing may provide an opening for pieces to fall into place. <\/span><\/p>\n

As the escalator ride came to an end, the boy waited for the precise moment for his dad to swing him over the threshold. He ran off in glee and safely. He left behind a reminder to \u201cwait for it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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I smiled as I watched the dad with his two-your old son scurry to the hotel escalator. The dad held his son\u2019s hand firmly and flew him a few inches off the ground to land squarely on the moving step. The boy giggled and wiggled as if he was on an amusement park ride. On the ride down, the little boy leaned forward in anticipation as if ready for take-off. I cringed with worry envisioning sharp escalator teeth against soft, baby skin. But his dad calmly said\u2014\u201cNo, not yet. 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